You have to tap on your husband, if it is not there scroll to the bottom of the options, and click on more options then click on flirty and it should be there
I've tried several times already, there is a glitch in the game. Why won't they fix it? I dont even a forum where they attempted to answer this topic. I more til it expires and I'm deleting it. Thank for nothing EA
Yea i know just go home and talk to your best relationship sim. Then press friendly and then baby 101 that will take you and your husband or boyfriend to the medical centre