update 16/05/2017

What is Relationship?

A relationship is strong connection or bond between two Sims. When both Sims interact, they both profit or lose points in their relationship. A relationship can be platonic, romantic or hostile and it's entirely based on their interaction history of the two Sims. Interacting with other Sims can use up your motives, particularly energy and hunger.

Different types of Relationship


These are Sims that you do not have any relation with. You don't have feelings towards them. All of the interactions are introductions. The color of the chat bubble is gray.


This is the first level of relationship that you will have with the other Sims if you talk or interact with them three times.


You can initiate a social event with that Sim to make your relationship stronger and to be a friend once your relationship level is at level 2. You can invite them in your house for a tea, share food or just gossip.

Romantic Interest

You can change the status of your friendly relationship with someone to a romantic one during relationship level 3 by initiating a Social Event called "Declare attraction". You'll be a romantic interest after the event.

Close Friend

You can be a close friend to other Sims if that said Sims is a friend of yours and with a relationship level 4. You can start a Social Event called "Deepen friendship" to become close friends.

Sweet Heart

You'll be sweetheart status once you've reached relationship level 5 with your romantic interest. You can now kiss, make out or hold hands.


You can be lovers once you've reached relationship level 7 with your sweetheart. You can now woohoo with your lover, but you must have the at least the Sleepytime Double.


These are Sims connected by blood. One good example is your baby. You can have baby once you've hit relationship level 8 and lover status. Another requirement is the bassinet.


While on relationship level 2, you can declare rivalry with other Sims. That Sims will be your arch nemesis. You can do mean interactions such as slapping or insulting.

What is interaction?

Relationships are formed or destroyed by interactions. These are actions by your Sims towards the other. It can be a friendly gesture or hostile one, but you can acquire a relationship point for each interaction.

Different types of Interaction


Make a friendly introductionGive AdviceChat about Food
Share Workout TipsCheer LoudlyGet to Know
Ask about dayAsk to be FriendsChat comfortably
GossipTell StoryCompliment
Share secretConfide InTell Dramatic Story
Ask for AdviceReminisceGive Fashion Tips
Share RecipesTalk about ArtDeepen friendship
Share songwriting tipsHave deep ConversationGive Heartfelt Compliment
Bond over FriendshipTalk about CoffeeTalk about favorite music


Declare RivalryArgueJab
Push ButtonsCall OutInsult
AccuseMockYell At
FightSlapPromise Revenge
Make Biting RemarkGlare AtPush Buttons
Call OutDeclare disdainDeepen animosity


Declare AttractionBrag about PhysiqueFlirt
Use Pickup LineBlow KissHold Hands
Make outKiss NeckProfess Love
Affirm LoveShare romantic memoryEmbrace
Almost appropriate touchingLeave a HickeyShare Body warmth
Share romantic memoryPropose MarriageAmorous advance
Prolonged KissingNibbleFlirty Whisper
HuggleDeclare true loveReassure cold feet
Profess timeless lovePropose marriageGive amorous hug
Ask to go steadyWhisper coy suggestions


Tell JokesDo ImpersonationMake Goofy Face
Clown aroundTell Amusing StoryDeepen Friendship
TicklePull prankHam it up
Tell inside jokeBond over friendship


Hot New Top
Po 12hour ago
How Can I Make My Sim To Get Marring?
tayahbuggezzzz 14hour ago
If your already married. Can you get your sim married to another person?
tayahbuggezzzz 14hour ago
If your already married. Can you get your sim married to another person?
Valor 1days ago
Can you have 2 romantic level 10 relationships for one sim? Or will one of them get mad and leave?
Eeveekit 1days ago
Me and my boyfriend want our sims to move into one another homes but it wont let us, why?
Anonymous 7days ago
A stranger walked into my house and he won’t leave, it’s been hours, what do I do?
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Hi 7days ago Reply
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Anonymous 4days ago Reply
same here
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Anonymous 1days ago Reply
Einna 27days ago
I already bought sleepytime double but still cant Woohoo i have max relationship with soulmate in beginning... And already married when i tap to bed sleepytime double there was "Woohoo with..." But cant click it because below there was "sleepytime double is blocked" please help me
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Claire 26days ago Reply
You should try to replace the bed in another space of the room...maybe
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Telisha 18days ago Reply
I had the same problem it simply means that you have to move the bed because it is to close to a wall or more furniture
<< Anonymous(Einna)
Anonymous 7days ago Reply
Move the bed space !
<< Anonymous(Einna)
Anonymous 2days ago Reply
It's because that sim is standing on the side of the bed n blocking it
Le le 8days ago
How to you ask a Sim to move in with you? ( It was on the interaction list before, but now it isn’t. And the Sim that I want to move in is my Sim’s Husband!)
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Anonymous 6days ago Reply
I have the same problem
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Annie 3days ago Reply
I'm having the same problem :(
It was an option before and now that I found someone I want to move in... I can't figure out how to do it!
Silly old fashioned me - I just want them to be in the same household before they have a baby LOL
Jaiden 3days ago
So my sims are in a relationship they are on level 8 and they still cannot "woo hoo" what can i do???
Simmer 10days ago
How do I change my relationship status with someone after I already chose the soul mates route?
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HJSRomero 6days ago Reply
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Anonymous 4days ago Reply
eh 10days ago
Is there a way to change a story to soulmates, or can you start a second story with the sane sim after you finished one?
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HJSRomero 6days ago Reply
Erika 9days ago
Can you change a relationship if it’s on- again lovers? I would like to be in a relationship but this is on again off again
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Me 8days ago Reply
Same problem
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GITA 6days ago Reply
I have the same problem. Is it possible to change relationship story?
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HJSRomero 6days ago Reply

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