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Relationships in the Sims Mobile

Sims Mobile relationships, stories, types of relationships, and rewards.
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What is a Relationship?

A relationship is strong connection or bond between two Sims. When both Sims interact, they both profit or lose points in their relationship. A relationship can be platonic, romantic or hostile and it's entirely based on their interaction history of the two Sims. Interacting with other Sims can use up your energy.

How to Improve Relationship

For you to deepen your Sims' relationship, you must interact or socialized with them. Another way to strengthen this bond is to complete Relationship Story you started with them.

Rewards

Every completed Relationship story has a certain reward. All of these rewards are clothes and accessories you can use to make your Sims appealing in the Sims World. These items are not available in the store.

Relationship Stories and their Progressive Paths

Hobby StoryProgression Path

Better Late Than Never
  • Intergenerational Allies
  • Social Media Sleuths
  • Friends with Messages
  • Truth-Seekers
  • Friends Reconnected

Arch-Nemeses
  • Chilly chums
  • Passive Aggressive Pals
  • Enemies
  • Nemeses
  • Arch-Nemeses

More Than Friends with Benefits
  • Friends with Baggage
  • Touchy-Feely Friends
  • Friends with Benefits
  • Friends with Feels
  • More Than Friends with Benefits

Soundtrack of Soul
  • Musical Mates
  • Acoustic Appreciators
  • Hardcore Harmonizers
  • Enthusiastic Ensemble
  • Encorse Companions

Old Rivals
  • Blasts from the Past
  • Renewed Rivals
  • Relentless Rivals
  • Poisonous Peers
  • Adversaries to the End

Raincheck, Please
  • Friends Again
  • Busy Buddies
  • Patchy Planners
  • Kinda Companions
  • Occasional BFFs

BFFs Forever
  • Fast Friends
  • Buddies
  • Close Friends
  • Confidants
  • BFFs

A Missed Connection
  • Old Acquaintances
  • Flirtationship
  • Puppy Lovers
  • Committed Relationship
  • True Lovers

Two Peas in an Odd Pod
  • Mismatched Pals
  • Judgy Buds
  • Comrades-at-Odds
  • Forgiving Friends
  • Unlikely Allies

Sibling Rivalry
  • Competitive Kin
  • Rivaling Relatives
  • Feuding Family
  • Squabbling Siblings
  • Forgiving Family

Secret Crush
  • Just Friends
  • Not-So-Secret Crush
  • More Than Just Friends
  • Sweethearts
  • Lovers

Geek Speak
  • Chic Geeks
  • Impassioned Enthusiasts
  • Convention Companions
  • Fanfiction Friends
  • Super Ultra Mega Besties

Misery Loves Company
  • Wet Blanket
  • Pessimistic Pal
  • Sad-Trombonist
  • Major Bummer
  • #1 Grump

Tainted Love
  • Slightly Toxic Sweethearts
  • On-Again Lovers
  • Never-Again Lovers
  • Drama Addicts
  • It's Complicated

Sports Buddies
  • Fellow Spectator
  • Sports Buddies
  • Passionate Fans
  • Dreamteam Pals
  • Fantasy Friends

Art Aficionados
  • Art Admirers
  • Painting Pals
  • Amateur Appraisers
  • Art Mystery Buffs
  • Crafty Sleuths

Soulmates
  • Not-So-Secret Admirer
  • Sudden Sweethearts
  • Lovers
  • Completely Enamored
  • Soulmates

Frenemies
  • Basic Buddies
  • Caustic Companions
  • Truly Toxic
  • Sarcastic Saboteurs
  • Frenemies

The Fixer-Upper
  • New Sweethearts
  • Unquestionably Quirky
  • Flirty Fixer-Upper
  • Wise Compromisers
  • Unconditional Lovers

Different types of Relationship

Stranger

These are Sims that you do not have any relation with. You don't have feelings towards them. All of the interactions are introductions. The color of the chat bubble is gray.

Acquaintance

This is the first level of relationship that you will have with the other Sims if you talk or interact with them three times.

Friend

You can initiate a social event with that Sim to make your relationship stronger and to be a friend once your relationship level is at level 2. You can invite them in your house for a tea, share food or just gossip.

Romantic Interest

You can change the status of your friendly relationship with someone to a romantic one during relationship level 3 by initiating a Social Event called "Declare attraction". You'll be a romantic interest after the event.

Close Friend

You can be a close friend to other Sims if that said Sims is a friend of yours and with a relationship level 4. You can start a Social Event called "Deepen friendship" to become close friends.

Sweet Heart

You'll be sweetheart status once you've reached relationship level 5 with your romantic interest. You can now kiss, make out or hold hands.

Lover

You can be lovers once you've reached relationship level 7 with your sweetheart. You can now woohoo with your lover, but you must have the at least the Sleepytime Double.

Relative

These are Sims connected by blood. One good example is your baby. You can have baby once you've hit relationship level 8 and lover status. Another requirement is the bassinet.

Rival

While on relationship level 2, you can declare rivalry with other Sims. That Sims will be your arch nemesis. You can do mean interactions such as slapping or insulting.

What is interaction?

Relationships are formed or destroyed by interactions. These are actions by your Sims towards the other. It can be a friendly gesture or hostile one, but you can acquire a relationship point for each interaction.

When you tap a Sim, you can also add them in your list. You can also give them stickers , view their home or report them if you feel you need to.

Different types of Interaction

Friendly

Make a friendly introductionGive AdviceChat about Food
Share Workout TipsCheer LoudlyGet to Know
Ask about dayAsk to be FriendsChat comfortably
GossipTell StoryCompliment
Share secretConfide InTell Dramatic Story
Ask for AdviceReminisceGive Fashion Tips
Share RecipesTalk about ArtDeepen friendship
Share songwriting tipsHave deep ConversationGive Heartfelt Compliment
Bond over FriendshipTalk about CoffeeTalk about favorite music

Mean

Declare RivalryArgueJab
Push ButtonsCall OutInsult
AccuseMockYell At
FightSlapPromise Revenge
Make Biting RemarkGlare AtPush Buttons
Call OutDeclare disdainDeepen animosity

Flirty


Declare AttractionBrag about PhysiqueFlirt
Use Pickup LineBlow KissHold Hands
Make outKiss NeckProfess Love
Affirm LoveShare romantic memoryEmbrace
Almost appropriate touchingLeave a HickeyShare Body warmth
Share romantic memoryPropose MarriageAmorous advance
Prolonged KissingNibbleFlirty Whisper
HuggleDeclare true loveReassure cold feet
Profess timeless lovePropose marriageGive amorous hug
Ask to go steadyWhisper coy suggestions

Funny

Tell JokesDo ImpersonationMake Goofy Face
Clown aroundTell Amusing StoryDeepen Friendship
TicklePull prankHam it up
Tell inside jokeBond over friendship

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Anonymous
I’m already at level 5 on my relationship bar but it won’t go to level 6??? I’m stuck at the heartbreakers part in the secret crust story line. Please help.
<< Anonymous
Anonymous Reply
Did you fix it?? Mine is stuck at level 6 for soulmates and I can't fix it :'(
<< Anonymous
Anonymous Reply
Mine also stuck at lv 6 and I'm so frustated :'(
<< Anonymous(Anonymous)
Anonymous Reply
me tooo omg!
<< Anonymous
Ellie Reply
It depends on which sim started the relationship. If you try with the other one it won't work. Hope it helps!
Anonymous
i'm on relationship level 9 with another sim and i'm married to them in the game but it's not letting me select the option to get them to move in with me. it always says that there's not enough space in my house but i just put a second story and have 3 bedrooms
Anonymous
How do I start the soulmate story with my Sims and my roommate?
Anonymous
How can I marry my Sims
Anonymous
I have a "Finest Friends" relationship with a sim. I want to change the sim into a romantic interest, but, just using flirty actions doesn't work. What do I do?
<< Anonymous
Anonym Reply
Také bych chtěla vědět jestli jde a jak jde změnit vztah simiku na jiný vztah
<< Anonymous
sketches Reply
Same here, any luck yet?

— Aug. 21st, 2020
Anonymous
is it possible to change or add another relationship story with the same sim?
<< Anonymous
sketches Reply
I need to know this, too. I wanted my Sims to have a romantic relationship, but the ONLY options were friendly. So, I started a friendly relationship, and now they are at level 3. Now what? How do you get them to be romantic interests?

(It's August 21st, 2020)
Anonymous
My Sims are at relationship level 3, but I can't get them to have a romantic relationship. How do you do it? There's no option to start the Secret Crush story.

It's August 21, 2020.
Anonymous
Uhmm.. im lvl 9 Lover but i cannot move in the sim. It says - there's no space -? What can i do?
<< Anonymous
b19 Reply
u need to unlock the 3rd sims in your id
b19
What to do when i reached relationship level 10?
Dee
I cant unlock level 9 of my BFF realtionship. Because it tells me to unlock other events. What are these other events?
biggyyilar
I'm very desperate so plsss someone :((
biggyyilar
Can someone add both of my accounts and host a party with them???

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