Relationships in the Sims Mobile

Sims Mobile relationships, stories, types of relationships, and rewards.
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update 08/04/2018

What is a Relationship?

A relationship is strong connection or bond between two Sims. When both Sims interact, they both profit or lose points in their relationship. A relationship can be platonic, romantic or hostile and it's entirely based on their interaction history of the two Sims. Interacting with other Sims can use up your energy.

How to Improve Relationship

For you to deepen your Sims' relationship, you must interact or socialized with them. Another way to strengthen this bond is to complete Relationship Story you started with them.


Every completed Relationship story has a certain reward. All of these rewards are clothes and accessories you can use to make your Sims appealing in the Sims World. These items are not available in the store.

Relationship Stories and their Progressive Paths

Hobby StoryProgression Path

Better Late Than Never
  • Intergenerational Allies
  • Social Media Sleuths
  • Friends with Messages
  • Truth-Seekers
  • Friends Reconnected

  • Chilly chums
  • Passive Aggressive Pals
  • Enemies
  • Nemeses
  • Arch-Nemeses

More Than Friends with Benefits
  • Friends with Baggage
  • Touchy-Feely Friends
  • Friends with Benefits
  • Friends with Feels
  • More Than Friends with Benefits

Soundtrack of Soul
  • Musical Mates
  • Acoustic Appreciators
  • Hardcore Harmonizers
  • Enthusiastic Ensemble
  • Encorse Companions

Old Rivals
  • Blasts from the Past
  • Renewed Rivals
  • Relentless Rivals
  • Poisonous Peers
  • Adversaries to the End

Raincheck, Please
  • Friends Again
  • Busy Buddies
  • Patchy Planners
  • Kinda Companions
  • Occasional BFFs

BFFs Forever
  • Fast Friends
  • Buddies
  • Close Friends
  • Confidants
  • BFFs

A Missed Connection
  • Old Acquaintances
  • Flirtationship
  • Puppy Lovers
  • Committed Relationship
  • True Lovers

Two Peas in an Odd Pod
  • Mismatched Pals
  • Judgy Buds
  • Comrades-at-Odds
  • Forgiving Friends
  • Unlikely Allies

Sibling Rivalry
  • Competitive Kin
  • Rivaling Relatives
  • Feuding Family
  • Squabbling Siblings
  • Forgiving Family

Secret Crush
  • Just Friends
  • Not-So-Secret Crush
  • More Than Just Friends
  • Sweethearts
  • Lovers

Geek Speak
  • Chic Geeks
  • Impassioned Enthusiasts
  • Convention Companions
  • Fanfiction Friends
  • Super Ultra Mega Besties

Misery Loves Company
  • Wet Blanket
  • Pessimistic Pal
  • Sad-Trombonist
  • Major Bummer
  • #1 Grump

Tainted Love
  • Slightly Toxic Sweethearts
  • On-Again Lovers
  • Never-Again Lovers
  • Drama Addicts
  • It's Complicated

Sports Buddies
  • Fellow Spectator
  • Sports Buddies
  • Passionate Fans
  • Dreamteam Pals
  • Fantasy Friends

Art Aficionados
  • Art Admirers
  • Painting Pals
  • Amateur Appraisers
  • Art Mystery Buffs
  • Crafty Sleuths

  • Not-So-Secret Admirer
  • Sudden Sweethearts
  • Lovers
  • Completely Enamored
  • Soulmates

  • Basic Buddies
  • Caustic Companions
  • Truly Toxic
  • Sarcastic Saboteurs
  • Frenemies

The Fixer-Upper
  • New Sweethearts
  • Unquestionably Quirky
  • Flirty Fixer-Upper
  • Wise Compromisers
  • Unconditional Lovers

Different types of Relationship


These are Sims that you do not have any relation with. You don't have feelings towards them. All of the interactions are introductions. The color of the chat bubble is gray.


This is the first level of relationship that you will have with the other Sims if you talk or interact with them three times.


You can initiate a social event with that Sim to make your relationship stronger and to be a friend once your relationship level is at level 2. You can invite them in your house for a tea, share food or just gossip.

Romantic Interest

You can change the status of your friendly relationship with someone to a romantic one during relationship level 3 by initiating a Social Event called "Declare attraction". You'll be a romantic interest after the event.

Close Friend

You can be a close friend to other Sims if that said Sims is a friend of yours and with a relationship level 4. You can start a Social Event called "Deepen friendship" to become close friends.

Sweet Heart

You'll be sweetheart status once you've reached relationship level 5 with your romantic interest. You can now kiss, make out or hold hands.


You can be lovers once you've reached relationship level 7 with your sweetheart. You can now woohoo with your lover, but you must have the at least the Sleepytime Double.


These are Sims connected by blood. One good example is your baby. You can have baby once you've hit relationship level 8 and lover status. Another requirement is the bassinet.


While on relationship level 2, you can declare rivalry with other Sims. That Sims will be your arch nemesis. You can do mean interactions such as slapping or insulting.

What is interaction?

Relationships are formed or destroyed by interactions. These are actions by your Sims towards the other. It can be a friendly gesture or hostile one, but you can acquire a relationship point for each interaction.

When you tap a Sim, you can also add them in your list. You can also give them stickers , view their home or report them if you feel you need to.

Different types of Interaction


Make a friendly introductionGive AdviceChat about Food
Share Workout TipsCheer LoudlyGet to Know
Ask about dayAsk to be FriendsChat comfortably
GossipTell StoryCompliment
Share secretConfide InTell Dramatic Story
Ask for AdviceReminisceGive Fashion Tips
Share RecipesTalk about ArtDeepen friendship
Share songwriting tipsHave deep ConversationGive Heartfelt Compliment
Bond over FriendshipTalk about CoffeeTalk about favorite music


Declare RivalryArgueJab
Push ButtonsCall OutInsult
AccuseMockYell At
FightSlapPromise Revenge
Make Biting RemarkGlare AtPush Buttons
Call OutDeclare disdainDeepen animosity


Declare AttractionBrag about PhysiqueFlirt
Use Pickup LineBlow KissHold Hands
Make outKiss NeckProfess Love
Affirm LoveShare romantic memoryEmbrace
Almost appropriate touchingLeave a HickeyShare Body warmth
Share romantic memoryPropose MarriageAmorous advance
Prolonged KissingNibbleFlirty Whisper
HuggleDeclare true loveReassure cold feet
Profess timeless lovePropose marriageGive amorous hug
Ask to go steadyWhisper coy suggestions


Tell JokesDo ImpersonationMake Goofy Face
Clown aroundTell Amusing StoryDeepen Friendship
TicklePull prankHam it up
Tell inside jokeBond over friendship

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I already bought sleepytime double but still cant Woohoo i have max relationship with soulmate in beginning... And already married when i tap to bed sleepytime double there was "Woohoo with..." But cant click it because below there was "sleepytime double is blocked" please help me
<< Anonymous(Claire)
<< Anonymous(Gracey)
Anonymous Reply
Move it to the middle of the room!
<< Anonymous(Gracey)
Anonymous Reply
Me too
<< Anonymous(Gracey)
I tried, but still
A stranger walked into my house and he won’t leave, it’s been hours, what do I do?
<< Anonymous
Anonymous Reply
<< Anonymous
Anonymous Reply
She is also my friend
So how do I end my relationship with her?
<< Anonymous
May 2018 Reply
I had this issue of an NPC bumming around my house. It took me to get a job that the NPC could and should interact to leave my house. That said that isn't cause and effect. Only have happened once.

I tried forming rivalry but this only hurt my hobby's effectiveness. This is something EA is not thinking through.
<< Anonymous(May 2018)
samatha Reply
im having the same issue i agree they didnt think it throught
Why can’t I marry a sim? We are level 10 soulmates. I have the wedding stuff. It won’t even let me ask them to move in.
<< Anonymous
WhatIfLinkWasAGirl Reply
You have to click on the wedding arch. The option to marry should be there.
<< Anonymous(WhatIfLinkWasAGirl)
Unicornsnot22 Reply
It still doesn't work
<< Anonymous
moralesgrasiela Reply
i cant propose or get married i have 3 friends and the wedding stuff and at level 10 soulmates as well what now? please help
<< Anonymous
May 2018 Reply
Try to check around lvl 8, you have to propose and then able to marry. These are romantic events. I've married friends together and love interests together.

The next challenge is two who hate each other.

You may need to buy specific items like the out door set for weddings and a double bed.
Le le
How to you ask a Sim to move in with you? ( It was on the interaction list before, but now it isn’t. And the Sim that I want to move in is my Sim’s Husband!)
<< Anonymous(Le le)
Anonymous Reply
Mine doesn’t allow me the option because there is no space in the household... what can I do
<< Anonymous(Le le)
Sade Reply
I have the same exact problem. I’m on level 10 and I’m married and I still can’t move my husband in. I have another room mate and I’m trying to get them to be good friends so I can move him in that way
<< Anonymous(Le le)
Helpful person Reply
Get them married or proposed
They move in automatically
<< Anonymous(Le le)
May 2018 Reply
You need that player to give up that simple. If they are willing and you have a free slot to add another SIM then it can be completed.

Basically you need control of two devices or build a casualty for that other human to take their SIM.
So my sims are in a relationship they are on level 8 and they still cannot "woo hoo" what can i do???
<< Anonymous(Jaiden)
supremecurt Reply
Do you have a double bed? That's a requirement
<< Anonymous(Jaiden)
silver Reply
mines at lvl 3 and able to woohoo and thier not even at lover status D: ann you need is a double bed hope that helps
<< Anonymous(Jaiden)
Trinity Reply
Do you have a double bed? Also it does not work if there in separate places (woo hoo does not make babies)
<< Anonymous(Jaiden)
Anonymous Reply
you need to make sure there's enough space for your bed in the room
I've upset my sweetheart in sims mobile and I have no idea how to make her happy again. Can you please tell me how to make her happy again?
<< Anonymous(Roxie)
Simply Beautiful Reply
Me too and I don’t even know what I did. He can’t even speak to her.
<< Anonymous(Roxie)
Chloe Reply
me too. please help
<< Anonymous(Roxie)
Anonymous Reply
i know!cause he 🔥s her too hard and it hurts her too much ! god bless her 🔥 ! the solution? buy her an iphone x
<< Anonymous(Roxie)
Anonymous Reply
Maybe you can just get another sweetheart
I want my sims to woohoo, and my sims relationship is 10.But it keeps saying the woohoo option is blocked and the relaxed with option is blocked. I dont know what to do T^T
<< Anonymous
Anonymous Reply
adjust your bed position. let more space beside the bed. it'd block bcos your sim cannot enter the bed
<< Anonymous
Anonymous Reply
Ok thanks
<< Anonymous
Anonymous Reply
I need to have a double bed...
Can you change a relationship if it’s on- again lovers? I would like to be in a relationship but this is on again off again
<< Anonymous(Erika)
Me Reply
Same problem
<< Anonymous(Erika)
GITA Reply
I have the same problem. Is it possible to change relationship story?
<< Anonymous(Erika)
HJSRomero Reply
fact is forgot to start the lecel 3 romantic event and now the level is friendly 10 . can o chamge it to romantic now ?
<< Anonymous
Anonymous Reply
Yeah, same. Or is it possible to change the relationship story midway?
<< Anonymous
Luli Reply
I have the same problems.. please let me know if anyone hve an answer. Many thankx
How do u get a sim out of your house I mean there’s a non player sim who is my rival and she won’t get out of my house! She’s not a sim who is supposed to live there and I’ve tried to move her 2 the market square. SOMEONE HELP!!!!
<< Anonymous
Anonymous Reply
I have this same problem
<< Anonymous
Anonymous Reply
I started a story with my “spouse” I completed 100%, two things.. it didn’t allow me to complete the quest, it’s also not allowing me to start a new story.. help please!!
<< Anonymous(H)
H Reply
Adding picture
<< Anonymous(H)
H Reply
Hi, I have a small concern regarding the Sims Mobile relationship issue:

I used the Two Peas in a Pod story. My Sims are at max relationship level, are married, can Woohoo, and are now in the middle of doing the Baby Quest. Basically, they're "Husband/Wife - Unlikely Allies"

However, whenever I try to access the "Cuddle with..." option at a party, it keeps telling me that I need to have a Romantic Interest? Am I missing something? Or does the Romantic Interest title on apply for select relationship stories only?

Any help or clarification is appreciated. ^^

P.S. Sorry if this was already answered and I didn't see it. ^^;;
<< Anonymous
Anonymous Reply
I don't know if this is correct, but I think you need to have a romantic interest with another Sim since you are married.

My best guess!
<< Anonymous
Nope you need to have used the action “flirty introduction” to have that and plus it’s glitchy

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